Most people have had the irritating experience of waiting to board an airplane while a toddler is running by screaming. The parents are chasing him and they look like they have much less energy compared to the loads of energy the toddler has. Maybe the toddler is usurping all of the energy from the parents? Meanwhile, the people waiting to board the plane are secretly hoping the family with the toddler isn’t sitting anywhere near them on the plane.
If you are the parent of a toddler, you know how difficult and embarrassing a toddler’s tantrum can be. Here are some tips to help make air travel with a toddler much easier so the people around you aren’t dreading sitting next to you on the plane.
As children begin to take those first few steps, they instantly enter the world of “toddler”. The toddler term encompasses children from the age of one up until the age of three. It is a very critical stage of development where the toddler begins to solve problems, relate to others, use and understand language, walk, climb, run, and many other skills. The toddler is also learning to become independent while still depending on Mom and Dad.
This is why toddlers often have difficulties while they are growing and changing in this stage. They may experience a number of tantrums because they are beginning to assert themselves, challenge authority, define themselves as separate people, and are beginning to express their own ideas and desires. This time can be filled with many difficulties for parents and for children. This is definitely the time where a toddler may stand up in his seat on the airplane, much to the chagrin of his parents and scream, “I want out now!”
It is critically important for parents to understand the need for toddlers to experience this stage. Parents must do research and learn as much as they can about toddler development in order to better equip themselves with the ability to handle their child through this stage- whether on an airplane or not.
Learning specific techniques like offering options to a toddler can help alleviate a number of tantrums. Also welcoming the toddler’s need to do things his or her way as often as possible can lesson the number of tantrums, even in small spaces like an airplane.
Once educated about toddler development and armed and ready with a few tricks of the trade, prepare yourself for the trip. Plan on pulling together a large bag of activities and items, such as those listed below, before boarding the plane.
Though it is never easy traveling with a toddler on an airplane, these activities will make the trip a lot less problematic. Plan on being busy offering these options to your child throughout the entire plane ride. Though exhausting, it is well worth it and it will make traveling a lot more fun for the whole family and for those sitting next to you. Remember all of these activities and items are also great for entertaining your child when you arrive at your destination. Therefore, you do not need to pack too many toys in the suitcase. Have a fun trip!